There Are Only Two Polarities For Everything

Family beliefs

Family beliefsWe are born and raised in different cultures and practically we build our belief systems based on the influence of these environments and the cultural values that we pick up as we emerge. Most of us identify ourselves based on family background, the place we grew up in and the experience we had as youngsters. Mainly this forms a part of who we are and our belonging, but it does not do a good job of defining us uniquely, as individuals who are separate from the product of that environment. Most of what we use to create and form our beliefs system’s on comes from this background, families and the community we grew up in. Usually we collect information from what we are taught and we pick up peer influences from our society and some of it is gotten from genetic inheritance.

This starts the foundation of our own creations, so as we do life building continues from this foundation. But some of these foundations are flawed, because they are not based on truth and we are meant to learn from them, then choose for ourselves what we really desire, repair the foundations then begin building from truth that will serve us and all humanity. The important thing is to adapt ourselves to the changes that the world is going through so that we are compatible and current. The problem is what we have been taught and learned as we have gone along with life only helps us to conform to systems that were already set up and if someone does not conform to these beliefs we fight them, call them names and put so much energy to make sure that they are destroyed and that whatever it is they desire to bring is rejected, and unfortunaltely this has caused delay to our own progression.

It is very important to realise that there are only two polarities as we live on this earth and our beliefs and values are built based on one of them. The bible in the book of Deuteronomy 30:19 it says, “This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live

Genesis 1:1, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth

There are many great examples of these two polarities that we can find all over, there is the light and  darkness, love and fear, day and night, male and female, up and down and so forth hope you get the idea. So all our beliefs are built and founded under one of these two platforms. I would like to focus more on the the basic polarities that our beliefs are founded on which are love and fear.

I have observed that we do not question our beliefs in any form or shape, it’s like they are not supposed to be questioned and there is an unwritten law of that says this is what it is, don’t question just follow. When someone challenges our beliefs or refuses to conform to them we become so defensive, aggressive and protective of them. As a result of this many have gone to war, feuds start in families and communities and everyone wants to prove that their belief system is the real thing and everyone should follow. If you look closely most of these beliefs that we defend are founded under the polarity of fear. So when fear is threatened we see the explosive destructive power that is locked in it. What we experience is a great release of the derivatives of fear which are anger, revenge, anxiety, restlessness, hopelessness, helplessness, grief, regret, guilt, betrayal, shame and many others.

Unfortunately most of us have fear ingrained at the core of our being and most of our decisions and actions come from this polarity. Thats were the problem starts, we have not learned who we really are based on the polarity of love, we have accepted life only based on what wephysically see and unfortunately most of what we see was created from the polarity of fear so we live our lives operating from what is on the outside of us rather than from what is within.

We deeply understand and know that we are something more than we see but we have overlooked the fact that there might be something that’s buried under that fear. The darkness of fear has clouded us so much that we can not see beyond the boders of it, we only catch glimpses of love but we never really experience it in truth or get into grips with truth based on agape love because there is too much debris covering it. I think fear stops us in our tracks because removing the darkness will bring out truth which spells the end to darkness, so fear is protecting itself by keeping us ignorant and searching where there is no answer darkness is passed on from one generation to the next.

I believe we need to do a proper excavation to unveil the other polarity of love that everyone has been searching for. We have not realised that truth is love and has been buried under the rubble of fear for generations.(Fewwww no wonder we couldn’t find love, the location is in a place where too many of us have not been looking) buried under the one thing we would never look. Its like mining when you want gold and diamonds you have to go digging, then you have to clean your findings, purify it and eventually you will end up a finished product that is worth billions in monetary value. So if we want love to fully exist in it’s true essence within us we have to start digging and get rid of the fear and we will eventually end up with a product that is worth so much more than we can give value to.

I like to look at it this way, we came from love to experience fear so that we can return right to the place where we started love. It does make me wonder why even the worst criminal when he/she comes into the place of love he/she can easily turn his/her life around. I have come to the conclusion that we are love so we can not experience ourself fully in it, so an opportune is given us to experience ourself as fear so that we can overcome it to return home.




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