Living An Extra Ordinary Life

Many would wonder what it really means when someone says they are living an extra ordinary life. The norm has been defined to us by our predecessors and we have not been awakened enough to ask why we do or live life in certain ways? So when we hear statements like that it is shocking to our intellect and often we assign this kind of life to others and feel that it is beyond our own reach so we settle for what has been, never getting to the point of questioning if that is all there is for us.

Through challenges, difficulties and at times suffering do some of us awaken and finally realize that what we had accepted as the norm is not really what it should be. We wake up to the realization that there are bigger and better lives that we could be living instead of just accepting mediocrity. So living an extra ordinary life is not out of reach for most of us but it is a decision and a choice we have to make in order to move ourselves into alignment with the desire that is waiting to be birthed from within us.

I remember a time when life was just happening to me, anything was acceptable and I just went along with everything and everyone else. There was no goal, no vision and no direction, when I look back it looks like I just went were the wind blew and that type of living does not open any doors to living an extra ordinary life, but it is a recipe for jealousy, envy and regret. Many of these emotions come by because there is no growth, nothing to show for your years on this earth and at times comparisons is the worst ingredient in that recipe as it will lead to shame, embarrassment and frustration.

How does someone reach the stage were they can confidently say they are living an extra ordinary life? There is no one answer that fits all to this question as our experiences are different, they range from age, sex, culture, values and beliefs. This is an individual thing, but to answer that you have to check within yourself, are you living a fulfilled life, are you living your truth from love? Are you joyful, happy, peaceful, grateful, accepting of who you are and what you are about? Are you fully accepting the way life is for you? As most of the time it is not about the things you have acquired but the circumstances you are living in with or without abundance.

We are at times deceived by the worldly things and systems that tell us that we can be effective if we follow what has been done before, but I believe that’s not true, everyone of us has a unique code within us to be and to live a better life than previous generations, we come into this earth to bring in new things that help humanity to evolve but in the process we get corrupted by what has been so our unique codes might never get activated for us to bring in the new that was needed for the season we are here. This is the time that we have to make  a choice and decision to start living that extra ordinary life so that we can make the impact that we have desired to do for a long time.